Approach women without fear, can only Superman do it?

All men, most when they are still kids, come to the point
where they are eager to talk with a girl and to get to know her
but there is some internal instability blocking them!

If you are a male reading this I am sure that you've
experienced it a 1000 times because it happens to all of us.

Can you recall an event when a girl you liked a lot gave you
obvious signals of wanting to talk with you but you were scared
like somebody is about to punch you?

Can you recall an event when everything was there for you and
you just had to make your move, but cause of something, you were
stuck and got lonely nights, again, instead of a loved woman's
company.

At Attract and Date, a company that does relationship research
and counseling we studied the problem and came to the conclusion
that the fear of getting to know women is put into a young boys
head from early age.

Our findings are astonishing. Young boys imitate their role
models. Classic examples are heroes like Superman or Batman. I bet
you still remember how you played that you can fly with your pal.

Those heroes get an attractive girlfriend they want but only
after they have proven themselves to be extra strong.

Do you remember lame journalist Clark Kent that couldn't even
put his glasses right and the lady was not attracted to him really?
Actually, Clark Kent is ridiculed in the movie cause he is just an
ordinary guy.

Then suddenly he turns into Superman and saves the world, now
it is o.k. for the lady to fall in his arms and she does that...no
questions asked.

Or Batman is a weird geek who has no date and sits lonely in
his cave like a solitary weirdo far away from outside world,
but when he puts on his costume and starts his stunts a
beautiful girl is immediately with him.

Such role models install a strong feeling of low self esteem in
a boys head and later in life a man will have trouble finding a
date because, realistically, he is no match for a movie hero. And
nobody is a match for a movie hero.

All men forget the social conditioning they went through as
children, and don't know the reasons for their low self esteem
around women, but it has a big influence on their behavior, and
when they see somebody they find attractive, they get blocked
and can't even say a word because unconsciously they know they
are not worthy of her.

That is why an average man has big trouble finding a girlfriend
while a very successful man can usually do it much easier.
A successful young manager, after spending many years working and
after closing important business deals will feel more like a hero
from his youth and will give himself permission to go around and
be confident. Or if a guy is an aspiring singer and nobody ever
heard of him he will be shy around women, but the moment he records
his first album or has a first concert he will immediately become a
super confident stud!

Only one in thousand will become successful in what he does, so
chances are slim.

It would be a lot easier if we could get confidence with women
without doing something outrageous, if we could get confidence
to naturally approach and intrigue any women we see, any place
even if we are average guys.....and we can following step-by-step
missions that erase the bad influences put in our minds.

It may not be a piece of cake, but it is a lot easier than
spending the night alone, or saving the world!

Ranko Magami ( Shark)

http://www.attractanddate.com